It is possible that Selena Gomez’s life might have been a little bit different if she had not met Benny Blanco, who is now her boyfriend.
The creator of Rare Beauty, who is 31 years old, discussed her relationship with the music producer, who is 36 years old, in an interview with TIME. She said that if the two hadn’t met, she would have considered adopting a child a few years in the future.
When I was by myself for five years, I became really used to being by myself. “I probably tortured myself in my head for like two years being alone, and then I kind of accepted it,” Gomez recalls. “A lot of people are afraid of being alone, and I probably did the same thing.”
As the actress continues, she mentions that her friendship with Blanco eventually developed into a love relationship. “Then I came up with my plan, which was I was going to adopt at the age of 35 if I had not met anyone,” she says. “It just happens when you least expect it.”

Despite the fact that Blanco has made it known to the public that he has expressed his desire to marry and have children with Gomez, the star of Only Murders in the Building admits that she is a little more concerned about her new future.
“I am aware of the things that individuals are capable of doing to the people that I love. According to Gomez, “My own fans, whom I truly adore and who I believe have played a significant role in shaping who I am, will say the most hurtful things to me about how I live my life.” “But he has the strength in him that none of that noise fazes him.”
“It is quite remarkable, and I just treasure each and every time that I spend with him. It is impossible for me to predict what the future may bring, but I am certain that he will not be leaving anything anytime soon.
Blanco and Gomez had been rumored to be dating since June 2023, but they did not officially announce their relationship until December 2023. They did not make their debut as a pair until January 2024, when they won the Emmys.
In the month of May, Blanco made an appearance on The Howard Stern Show, where he discussed his connection with Gomez and shared his thoughts on the possibility of their future together.
Howard Stern, the presenter of the show, said Blanco, “You are some boyfriend, you’re knocking it out of the park.” Blanco had described what he had done for the couple’s first Valentine’s Day together, which included hiring out an entire movie theater and purchasing all of his girlfriend’s favorite meals. I sense love in this place, and I’m forecasting that we will be married.”
The cheeky response that Blanco gave was, “You and me both.”
The question “When will you propose?” was posed to Blanco by Stern during the same conversation. At this moment, you ought to make the announcement. Can you tell me when you plan to pop the question to your very famous girlfriend, Selena?
Blanco acknowledged, “When I look at her…,” she said after he had laughed. On a regular basis, I find myself thinking, “I don’t know of a world in which it could be better than this.”
After that, the celebrity went on to disclose that the couple’s first anniversary is approaching, and that it will take place “right around her birthday [July 22].” He also said that he has “some really good stuff” prepared for the actress.