In an interview that thirty-two-year-old Selena Gomez gave, she said that she has always had the desire of starting a family and having children. However, she is now unable to have her own children. The singer disclosed information on her personal life and physical state, as well as her intentions to become a mother in the future, despite all of the obstacles that stand in her way.
“I don’t think I have ever said this before, but, sadly, I am unable to carry my own children,” Selena Gomez said. She continued by stating that the health problems she is now facing might have a negative impact on both herself and the child, saying, “I have a lot of medical issues that would put my life and the baby’s life in jeopardy.” “I had to grieve for a while over that situation.”
She has accepted the fact that she will not be able to become a parent in the way that she had first hoped, despite the fact that she had always anticipated that it would happen naturally. Gomez expressed her appreciation for the various possibilities that were accessible to her, such as surrogacy and adoption, and she was grateful for the opportunities that these options provided.
She said, “I consider it a blessing that there are amazing people in the world who are willing to be surrogates or adopt children; these are two options that I am seriously considering.” It caused me to feel really grateful for the numerous avenues that are available to those who desperately want to become mothers. I am a somebody of the kind. I am looking forward to seeing what that voyage will be like, although it will be a bit different from what I expect it to be. When everything is said and done, I do not give a damn. It will be mine when I get it. I will be responsible for it.” Gomez has been forthright and honest about the health problems she has had over the years. She received a diagnosis of lupus in 2013 and got a kidney transplant in 2017 as a result of the disease. She made public the fact that she had been diagnosed with bipolar illness in the year 2018. Her opinions on whether or not to have a family have been affected by these health issues.
“That is a very large and significant aspect of my life right now,” she had previously said. Nonetheless, I am supposed to have them, and I shall. I believe there is something that is hanging over me that may perhaps be my bipolar disorder, which in a sense keeps me grounded—in a rather morbid manner.
It is already more than a year since Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco, who is a music producer, made their relationship public. Nonetheless, she confessed that her ideas about being a mother began long before they started dating. She said, “Aside from going on a handful of dates, I had been single for five years before I met my boyfriend.” “And I was thinking to myself, ‘Okay, if this is the feeling, then what is the thing that is most essential to me? “Family.”
Benny said to Howard Stern earlier this year that his “next goal on the box” was to have children.
Selena responded to Vanity Fair by stating, “He is incapable of telling a lie.” I found myself giggling uncontrollably in the aftermath of the interview. Something like, “Did you need to tell me about anything else?”
The vocalist of the song “Same Old Love” made the following comment in regards to the loving relationship that they were experiencing: “I have never felt this kind of love before.” He has been a genuine source of light in my life, a full and whole brightness. “I enjoy sharing everything with him because he is my closest friend.”
Selena Gomez often makes frank remarks on her personal life and health. The singer has acknowledged that she has come to accept her physique and that she likes it despite the fact that she is often the recipient of criticism over her looks.
